From v4.1.0, the reliable way to find a friend’s lobby is the 5-character join code, not the legacy Find Server room-name browser.
Quick path
- Host copies the join code (verifiable in-game) and region tag.
- You enter that code under Multiplayer search with the same region.
- Prefer a waiting lobby — in-progress matches are filtered from public search by default (host can toggle).
- Format a Discord paste with Join Code Share.
If the code still fails
- Version mismatch: everyone on v4.1.0 — Version Mismatch.
- Region tag mismatch: align host and joiner tags.
- NAT / firewall: host enables UPnP or forwards UDP 27015–27030 — Port Forwarding.
- Password typos: Lobby Password Fix.
- Full invite flowchart: Invite Not Working.